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Christmas Mantel 2012, (i think?)

December 5, 2012 by Edie Wadsworth 101 Comments

And the winner is——coral-ish!!!!  (If you’re confused, read start reading the post after the 2nd photo first and then come back up here!)

Do you hate me?  If so, blame it on Ruth.  She took us down the dark and twisty alley of ‘black is dead to me.’

So, what I did was—-I spray painted the black mirror gold first and then mixed up the craziest concoction of paint you ever did see, using every tube of acrylic paint in this house until it was just perfectly coral-ish.   I painted over the gold with a brush and then when that was almost dry, I rubbed the edges so some of the gold would show through. All this I did at 5:30 this morning in my peejammers, fully prepared to paint over it if need be.

 Because why?  Because this is all perfectly normal in my world.  It ain’t easy living in this brain of mine.

Do you like the mirror painted a coral-y color?


Or do you like it black? You can pick your favorite and imagine that I kept it that way.  We all win!

That was the question I posed to my very insightful readers.

Do y’all have any idea the haphazard throwing around of things  that goes into making my Christmas mantel?  I wish I was one of those people who packed things in a box labeled ‘Christmas mantel’, to reuse year after blessed year.  If you do have a box so labeled, I want to be you.  I covet your organization and discipline.

But I don’t have a box labeled Christmas mantel.

We all knew that, right?

And every year, I cipher and clip greens and move mirrors and spray paint stuff.  All in an effort to make beautiful Christmas mantel music.

This year, let’s make this a joint effort, whatdaya say? Here’s what I need to know from you.

I’ve been hemming and hawing all day about whether or not I should spray paint that mirror.  Well, maybe not ALL day, but in between laundry folding and dinner making and Latin chanting, it’s taunting my weary mind.  So here’s the deal.  Leave a comment and tell me whether or not I should spray paint the black mirror gold (or maybe you have another color suggestion?) and I’ll count the votes and follow the moral majority.  Give me all your sophisticated reasons cause y’all are smart and will school me on why I should leave it/paint it.

And to be totally fair, here’s what the gold mirror looked like before I moved it to the newly painted bathroom. Just looking at this picture makes me wanna paint it gold.  But DON’T let me sway you.

  I know you want that antique  federal mirror back on the mantel and I do too. But he’s in the bathroom, loving on the striped walls.

While we’re at it, here’s a sneak peek of the newly striped bathroom.  It’s all kinds of cozy up in there.  And David wasn’t missing out on all the fun.  He may be there to stay.  There’s a whole post coming soon on that little project.

 But you can’t have the mirror for the mantel. Okay, one more viewing.

Please take note of my Meyer’s lemon tree, WHICH IS FINALLY BLOOMING!!!!!!!!!!!)

And never mind the wad of lights that I didn’t bother to spread neatly under the greens.  If I had done that then we wouldn’t be having this conversation at all because I’d have a box labeled ‘Christmas mantel,’ remember?

Now, give it to me straight. Black or gold? Which shall it be, my dear internets?

And I’m linking this crazy mantel post with Layla’s mantel party!  Thank you hosting, sweet dear!

Filed Under: ADD, holidays Tagged With: christmas mantel

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  1. AvatarLidy@FrenchGardenHouse says

    December 5, 2012 at 7:58 pm

    Much as I adore GOLD….your mirror looks fabulous Black. It pops just enough, and really draws our eye to the {fantastic!} zebra bench. I am loving the Black.

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  2. AvatarMarie at the Lazy W says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:00 pm

    I vote leave it black! Normally I am a big fan of chunky gold frames all over every wall, but this one thick black looks better against your clean wall and wintry stuff, and with the green too. In MY humble opinion. LOL Also loving all of the bold geometric shapes and colors you’re using. Super fresh and pretty. But everything always is. Merry Christmas form Oklahoma!!

    Reply
  3. AvatarJennifer says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:01 pm

    I like it black. I think better than gold … but you know what I REALLY think? Turquoise. Truly! (It’s all gorgeous and I love those stripes!!!)

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    • AvatarMarie at the Lazy W says

      December 5, 2012 at 8:06 pm

      Ha! Yes, turqouise! Can’t go wing with it. The best neutral. ; )

      Reply
    • AvatarMarie at the Lazy W says

      December 5, 2012 at 8:06 pm

      Ha! Yes, turquoise! Can’t go wing with it. The best neutral. ; )

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      • AvatarNan says

        December 5, 2012 at 8:34 pm

        Oooww
        …turquoise….yum.

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    • Avatarbeverly says

      December 6, 2012 at 12:23 am

      Jennifer beat me to it – so add one more vote for turquoise. It has so much more panache than black or gold.

      Reply
  4. AvatarJennifer says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:01 pm

    I like it black. I think it’s better than the gold … but you know what I REALLY think? Turquoise. Truly! (It’s all gorgeous and I love those stripes!!!)

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  5. AvatarKelly says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:02 pm

    I think you should paint it gold. The black is a bit heavy. I think something lighter, more reflective.(I know its a mirror so it is reflective but more reflective 🙂 ) It’s beautiful no matter what you choose.

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  6. AvatarNan says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:06 pm

    Okay…so here is my little opinion, via observation… Leaving it black is looking a bit heavy with
    all the rest of the black….fireplace, stunning zebra seat and wonderful , is that navy and white rug?
    Also the dark navy in the bookcases. To me, that mirror is begging to be gilded! Delish!!
    But with your talent Edie, you could do whatever and totally pull it all off! No kidding.

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  7. AvatarDevon says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:06 pm

    Gold! I think the black is too bold! Heehee, that rhymed.
    The gold is classy!

    Reply
  8. AvatarAngie says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:09 pm

    Between black and gold, I’m leaning toward gold. Just to make it a little more difficult, I’d personally go for turquoise with a little antiquing treatment, or pumpkin orange which is what I have over my sofa right now. Well, that’s really no help. Go with gold ; )

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  9. AvatarRuth says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    Miss Edie-You rock even if you don’t have a box labeled Christmas mantel. Besides I truly do not believe that you could use the same things year after year. You are too unique for that. Your mantel takes on your personality.
    Now formy humble opinion-I say gold. The black is too heavy for that area. But even better would be a pop of color like coral. Call me crazy but it’s one of my new favorites. I think i may be a bit envious of your vast ottoman collection. They’re all fabulous.
    Hugs!

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    • AvatarRuth @ Living Well Spending Less says

      December 6, 2012 at 3:15 pm

      I was going to say red but I like coral even better.

      Reply
      • AvatarLenna says

        December 6, 2012 at 4:26 pm

        I love the mantel but I think it would look better gold. But I’m sure what ever you do will look great. Your whole house is spectacular.

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  10. AvatarJulie Ann Blevins says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:23 pm

    Hi Edie. It looks great….I love it…..enjoy it! 🙂

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  11. AvatarSandra says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:42 pm

    Gold. The black just doesn’t let you eye flow around all that is there on the mantel to enjoy.

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  12. Avataredie says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:44 pm

    Y’all are KILLING me here. Now, I’m leaning towards coral, no thanks to Ruth. It would totally go with the pom pom wreath I made today.
    I’ll be at Lowe’s by daybreak.
    And never mind what I said about majority.
    This may turn out to be a kind monarchy.
    :)))))

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    • AvatarNan says

      December 5, 2012 at 8:49 pm

      OHhhhh Coral would be a knock out! Can’t wait to see the wreath!

      Reply
    • AvatarLindsay says

      December 5, 2012 at 11:37 pm

      um YES to coral!!

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    • AvatarJulie Ann Blevins says

      December 13, 2012 at 7:21 pm

      I love it!!!

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  13. AvatarGlenda Childers says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:45 pm

    I would keep it black … it brings out the smaller black bits on the mantel. (the frame and the chalkboard.) You already have several bits of gold.

    I vote … black.

    Fondly,
    Glenda

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    • AvatarAlisa says

      December 6, 2012 at 5:22 pm

      Ditto Glenda.

      Reply
  14. AvatarTerry A. says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:52 pm

    I vote gold. I think the black looks too harsh.

    However, I might like the black better if I could see the whole wall and how it blended in with the bookcases, too?

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  15. AvatarJulie says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:53 pm

    I love the gold, but the black is really fun, too, so I guess I’m no help at all. So, why am I even posting? 🙂

    Reply
  16. AvatarBev says

    December 5, 2012 at 8:57 pm

    coral, terquoise, black, ANYTHING but gold. Gold is way too ’80’s for you Edie!

    Reply
  17. AvatarLeslie says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:00 pm

    I’m thinking there’s enough gold — I love the black…although turquoise or coral would be awesome! Or how about kelly green for a little Christmas punch?

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  18. AvatarTrish @TheOldPostRoad says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:12 pm

    If I suggest a citron or apple green or avocado green that isn’t too neon, don’t blame me if it looks horrible. Like this color- http://pinterest.com/pin/127297126937133116/ It would match that little framed sign to the right on the mantle and the pear sticking out of the bookcase in one of the photos. But, I can be really wrong, sometimes – so be prepared to repaint if the applegreen color is horrible. Since it is december and you don’t have anything else to do.
    -Trish

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  19. AvatarJanie Fox says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:13 pm

    I struggle with the dumb mantel every stinking year. I wish someone would do a mantel for dummies book. That said, one word…PINK!

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    • AvatarSouthern Gal says

      December 5, 2012 at 10:14 pm

      I second the book for dummies.

      Reply
  20. Avatarchrissy says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    I was thinking black until I pictured a bright coral and I really think coral would look fun, holidayish and it would brighten it up.

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  21. AvatarHeather says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    Why not try a little gold leaf over the black and see what happens, you might get the best of both worlds and if not then you can paint it.

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  22. AvatarTeresa Nelson says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:19 pm

    I don’t think I’d go gold — you already have the two sconces that are gold, and I think a wall of gold metallic is too concentrated and not balanced enough. It doesn’t get the eye moving. I like the black better than gold … but dare I say you paint it another color entirely? Maybe another metallic hue or a yummy yellow? Okay — too many options. 🙂 If it’s between gold and black, I vote black.

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  23. AvatarJessie @ Dream & Differ says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:23 pm

    Go golden! The whimsical steer’s head just begs to be balanced with an elegant, refined golden mirror.

    But coral might be fabulous! 😉
    Good luck!

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  24. AvatarJennifer says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:25 pm

    Silver!!! Burnished, not chrome…

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  25. AvatarChavala Orlando says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:38 pm

    I say GOLD! I LOVE GOLD! If not gold you could do some bright funky color like Coral or Fuscia since you are going for a nontraditional “Christmas” palette.

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  26. Avatarkaren@somewhatquirky says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:39 pm

    Gold. It just looks better. Much better.

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  27. AvatarEmily A. Clark says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:43 pm

    Hmmmm…..I love whatever you do. But, I think I’m leaning toward black since the gold sconces are already there. But, then again, I’m getting ready to change up my black mirror above our mantel, so what do I know?!

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  28. AvatarTrix says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:45 pm

    I say either turquoise or coral. I was thinking turquoise before you said coral. Perk side to turquoise, House Of Turquoise blog would want to share your site, but that your soul was feeling coral plays in to the decision. You are such a cutey Edie. Keep the faith and good work!! Love Trix

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  29. AvatarMarilynn Brasher says

    December 5, 2012 at 9:46 pm

    I’m loving the black! It stands out so well and connects with the black/white bench. By the way, thanks for introducing me to Bonhoeffer’s God Is In The Manger.

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  30. AvatarSouthern Gal says

    December 5, 2012 at 10:11 pm

    Gold looks so much more festive! I say paint it.

    I painted an old wood framed mirror with 10 year old paint I had in a closet before hanging it on my mantel yesterday. It’s actually sage green with the wood shining through a little.

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  31. AvatarMelissa says

    December 5, 2012 at 10:12 pm

    Love the gold. I have to echo Marilynn’s thanks for the introduction to God is in the Manger. I am thoroughly enjoying it.

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    • Avataredie says

      December 6, 2012 at 1:36 pm

      we are too, melissa! you’re welcome:)))

      Reply
  32. AvatarThe 1st of May says

    December 5, 2012 at 10:27 pm

    I like black. I also think it would be very “you” to spray it a bold color!

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  33. AvatarRuth says

    December 5, 2012 at 10:43 pm

    Oh, Edie- I can hardly wait to see what you decide but you know that I am secretly holding out hope for coral. That mirror just lends itself to that color. The shape and curves just cry out for a little coral love.

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  34. Avatarjen lewis says

    December 5, 2012 at 11:13 pm

    IF it was my fireplace…The black. For sure. It’s balanced with the black in fireplace and the bench.
    Its pleasing to the eye. Plus, the black mirror has a bit more height,
    which also creates more of a balance since there is a lot empty space above the mantle.
    Just beautiful. I adore your home…or shall I say…your decorating talent!
    Merry Christmas!
    Coral…it’s you. And yes, it would look FAB!
    Jen

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  35. AvatarAmy Callahan says

    December 5, 2012 at 11:46 pm

    Coral

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  36. Avatarshannon says

    December 6, 2012 at 1:12 am

    Love, Love, Love the black! It pulls the black from the bench and the dark backing from the bookcase together! It has just the right visual contrast and weight. Plus, I have been looking for a similar mirror for my daughters room..so please share your source!

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  37. AvatarLaura@Ms Smartie Pants says

    December 6, 2012 at 1:15 am

    I think the gold is richer and the black is really kinda harsh, but I might suggest putting a little black glaze over the gold spray paint.

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  38. AvatarKaren says

    December 6, 2012 at 2:13 am

    BLACK!

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  39. AvatarBeth Morrow says

    December 6, 2012 at 6:40 am

    Well, I love how the black completes th black theme on that wall. The black FP surround, the black bookshelves and the black mirror just makes sense. Love the sprayed antlers and if you wanted a pop of color … here is where I would bring it in…torquoise would be great. And if you have another antler (and I know you do ) try it on the other side of the mantle just for balance. And that box labeled CHRISTMAS MANTLE, well forget it. People like us would be changing it anyway.
    Ahhh. Didn’t you change the mirror? Like this one better! But regarding the other one, I have a mirror like that and it went white and is on a Navy blue wall in a nursery.p

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  40. Avatarkari says

    December 6, 2012 at 7:25 am

    Turquoise! Although coral would be yummy too! My two favorites! Your mantle last year is on my holiday pin board and I love the pops of color in it! Go bold! Merry Christmas!!!

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  41. AvatarEmily says

    December 6, 2012 at 7:49 am

    No gold or black–you already have enough of that. Go with the unexpected pop of turquoise or coral as others have suggested. Love you whole house Edie!

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  42. AvatarDeborah says

    December 6, 2012 at 8:17 am

    I’m really liking the black.

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  43. AvatarAmy G. says

    December 6, 2012 at 8:25 am

    Gold. Or a hot pink or turquoise. 🙂

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  44. AvatarNester says

    December 6, 2012 at 8:36 am

    you have a meyer lemon tree? i just died. #want you are my hero, do you know that?

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  45. AvatarDenise says

    December 6, 2012 at 8:37 am

    This may be a round about answer, but I would paint the wall behind the mirror (above the fireplace) a darker accent color. Not the mantel, just the little section of wall for contrast. Then you could paint the mirror gold or perhaps cream or white to go with your mantel. I would even look for more mirror as a grouping. Sorry I didn’t answer your question straight up. Love your house so I know you will find a great solution.

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  46. AvatarNester says

    December 6, 2012 at 8:37 am

    Also, I think asking questions like this online is always fun because you realize what you really want. If everyone says to paint it neon you can be all “you fools I want it gold” in your head of course, but it really helps solidify what it is you really want. Can’t wait to see what that is!

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  47. AvatarMary says

    December 6, 2012 at 9:05 am

    I think color (whether coral or any of the other colors mentioned) is a better choice then gold. It’s Christmas, it’s a celebration. Though gold is beautiful, and classic a little color would be fun and spunky.
    I keep thinking of a cocktail party at the holiday season… (go with me here) You wear your basic little black dress, it looks great, your wearing a fantastic accessories…. your da bomb. Heads turn the whole enchilada. Then your friend walk in… wearing the coral… fun party dress, that only she could pull off…. She’s saying celebrate! Fun… Whoa Nelly! Let’s get this Party a going… and she’s the enchilada with sour cream and guac. That’s you Edie…. go for the sour cream and guacamole!
    Add the color…

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  48. AvatarFlower Patch Farmgirl says

    December 6, 2012 at 9:34 am

    Well, I love the black because I really like the contrast between Sir Stag and his frame. But what about a deep, swoony plum? Aubergine? Something that would read “dark”, but still give a bit of color to play off the other black in the room?

    I’m intrigued by the coral, too…

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    • AvatarStefanie Jennings says

      December 6, 2012 at 11:30 am

      Aubergine sounds pretty combined with all the yellows around the room. Good idea!

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      • AvatarAlison F. says

        December 6, 2012 at 1:40 pm

        I vote PLUM… And… by the way, let’s just give the bench some love. Seriously. I. love. it.

        I also love the sweet little nativity on the right. I dream about our “grown up” home with all of the kids’ sweet Christmas memories sprinkled about. Love this season – will love that one too.

        Happy spraying, Edie!

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  49. Avatarmandy says

    December 6, 2012 at 9:38 am

    I think black looks more original French countryish…leave as is…it is beautiful and have another cup of coffee!!!! Mandy

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  50. AvatarAmber Murphy says

    December 6, 2012 at 10:14 am

    Who has time to paint in December ; ) black is best!

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  51. AvatarAmanda says

    December 6, 2012 at 10:25 am

    Both are lovely but I would pick the gold (if I had to choose).

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  52. AvatarClaire says

    December 6, 2012 at 10:36 am

    I happen to love the black. Why not cut yourself some slack and just leave it as it is. I believe that most of us worry too much about perfection (whatever that is) and have no idea how to be content with things that aren’t perfect (thereby creating much more work for ourselves). It’s beautiful the way it is. Why not use your extra time (that you gain by not painting the mirror) to do nothing at all, except maybe to drink a cup of coffee or tea and sit in His Presence and reflect on His coming?

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  53. AvatarBeth says

    December 6, 2012 at 10:53 am

    DON’T YOU DARE paint it gold!!! It is perfection the way it is and ties together the rug, stool, and fireplace itself!! If you want more gold, lay some over-sized gold Christmas tree balls on the green garland gracing your mantel. I LOVE it as is though. The black is refreshing and IT WORKS!! Don’t fix something that ain’t broken girlfriend! 😉

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  54. AvatarGLORIA says

    December 6, 2012 at 11:02 am

    CORAL

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  55. AvatarSheila says

    December 6, 2012 at 11:14 am

    I like it the way you have it. I just want to know where you moved my mirror (okay, it’s only mine in my head) – the honeycomb framed one that used to be there? If you’re getting rid of it, I can send you my shipping information… 🙂

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  56. AvatarMichelle says

    December 6, 2012 at 11:18 am

    black!

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  57. AvatarStefanie Jennings says

    December 6, 2012 at 11:29 am

    I think black. You have so many gold/brass accessories floating around your house that you’ll inevitably add gold in other ways. And, I think the black allows your sconces to pop.

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  58. AvatarJennifer K says

    December 6, 2012 at 11:49 am

    I like both the black and the gold. However, I always love coming here to see something different and unexpected! I think those two choices are too ordinary for you! Surprise us with something different!!!

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  59. Avatarflyinjuju says

    December 6, 2012 at 12:28 pm

    How about Red or Fuschia? A bright color pop would add such a fun Christmas treat. 🙂

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  60. AvatarLisa says

    December 6, 2012 at 3:05 pm

    Coral.
    But I am really really wondering….
    1.what does the cow think?
    2. more importantly, how is she( he?) hanging there? 🙂
    Dying to know!

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  61. AvatarPeyton says

    December 6, 2012 at 4:18 pm

    Gold is way better than black but my vote is for an orangish-red.

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  62. Avatarred says

    December 6, 2012 at 4:37 pm

    Turquoise! Or hot pink. Or gold. I think the mantel needs a pop of something bold.
    Happy decorating!

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  63. AvatarLemonade Makin' Mama says

    December 6, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Oh girl leave it black…. it has a sweet little conversation with the black on the mantel and the black in the bench and rug. I love it!!

    But if you paint it, I’ll love that too. Just saying.

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  64. AvatarT.smith says

    December 6, 2012 at 5:30 pm

    Well…since you asked for opinions….leave the mirror black. Hang a wreath made of greens (faux or real) entwined with battery operated string of clear Christmas lights around the cow’s neck. Clear everthing off the mantle, put the Nativity on the mantle in the space between the mirror and the sconce. (I see it sitting on the bookshelf to the right 😉 ) Then on the mantle, in the space inbetween the left sconce and left side of the mirror, put varying heights of candles in Advent colors. That’s it…simple, focused, themed to the reason for the season! If one more thing feels needed, make a banner of whatever design you desire, swag it under the mantle. Whatever you decide, we will enjoy looking at it, it will bring your family joy, and make the Lord smile!

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  65. AvatarEvie says

    December 6, 2012 at 6:07 pm

    How about keeping the black and adding a little bit of gold accent paint to it?!

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  66. AvatarJessica says

    December 6, 2012 at 6:55 pm

    Black! Maybe put a Christmas bell around the cow’s neck? Or a bell with a bold color.

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  67. Avatarsusan sinard says

    December 6, 2012 at 9:34 pm

    GO gold or GO home! just kidding you are already home…sounded clever…

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  68. AvatarHaley says

    December 6, 2012 at 9:37 pm

    Plum through the Winter then paint it coral for Spring/Summer. You CAN have it all!

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  69. AvatarPam says

    December 6, 2012 at 10:29 pm

    I vote Black. You could always go with yellow to match your lemons.

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  70. AvatarMarmee says

    December 7, 2012 at 12:12 am

    Love the coralish!! Great juxtaposition of the manly horned creature surround by a whimsical color!

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  71. Avatarmelissa stover says

    December 7, 2012 at 2:02 am

    you know i didn’t comment because i wasn’t for black or gold, but i sure like how it turned out pink.

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  72. AvatarBeth Morrow says

    December 7, 2012 at 7:18 am

    My husband looked at both pics this morning…he picked the black and I agree. Love coral, but it just doesn’t compeat w the black…not that you asked, but I’d go back to black and paint the antlers coral…just sayin 🙂

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  73. AvatarRuth says

    December 7, 2012 at 7:45 am

    Edie-I love it!!! It’s amazing with the stately steed. Which I would live to know where you pick one of those up. And then hubby will think I’ve lost my mind for sure but I’m ok with that. I know he would’ve chosen the black but I am loving this color!!
    Sorry to all the black loving, coral haters.
    I’m glad you went down this road with me, Edie. BTW, the anticipation was almost too much to bear.
    Hugs,
    Ruth

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    • AvatarRuth says

      December 7, 2012 at 7:48 am

      Please do share how the stately steed sits a top that mirror so nicely.

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      • AvatarTerri says

        December 7, 2012 at 10:45 am

        Ruth you’re my new HERO! Ruth, you knocked the color choice out of the ballpark. Edie, you pulled it together like a decorating-maniac-pro! Yay for you!

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  74. AvatarMichelle says

    December 7, 2012 at 10:25 am

    I liked the black better. I think it tied all the other black accents together in the room. The gold would be my second choice and the coral is definitely last. It looks like you were trying to match it to the brick.
    Your house is beautiful beyond words, but this choice was not one that I think works with your decor.
    This is just my humble opinion!

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  75. Avatartara lowry says

    December 7, 2012 at 10:30 am

    well..you went with coral, and it was the right thing to do. although, the black really did pop, but I can see where you might think it didn’t pop ENOUGH since you have the black and white striped ottoman and the dark colored backs in your built-ins.

    You rocked that mantle, girl.

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  76. AvatarJennifer says

    December 7, 2012 at 10:33 am

    Love the new color! 🙂

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  77. AvatarElizabeth says

    December 7, 2012 at 7:04 pm

    Way to Go Edie!!! Kudos for just doing it! You are an inspiration to try something new and don’t think too much about it, cause it can always be repainted.

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  78. AvatarLayla says

    December 8, 2012 at 9:12 am

    I love it ALL, and YOU! 😀

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  79. Avatargayle says

    December 8, 2012 at 11:36 am

    Oh, you are too cute! I love the black mirror with all the rest of the black. I love the coral with the bricks. I love the Federal mirror over the mantel and in the bathroom. How do you ever know when to quit?

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  80. AvatarCeleste says

    December 8, 2012 at 5:39 pm

    All beautiful but the coral manages to pull off elegant and contemporary with a soupçon of whimsy! Voila!

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  81. AvatarVictoria says

    December 10, 2012 at 12:02 am

    I’m a little late to this paint party, but I did kinda like the black. However, the color you painted it now blends with the brink on your fireplace. So either is good. You always know what to do! Just go with it and let your mantle sing!

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  82. AvatarMelissa says

    December 10, 2012 at 9:59 am

    Love the coral color without a doubt.

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  83. AvatarKathryn C says

    December 10, 2012 at 1:11 pm

    WOW! That color is just so you! I would have been too scared to paint it. Bravo! Merry Christmas 🙂

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Instagram post 2185709449818144382_27826134 The first time I hosted Thanksgiving was the only year I was ever a single mom, the year after my Daddy died.  I stayed up all night the night before, working  like crazy woman, probably trying to prove to myself that I was resilient and capable and industrious.  I listened to Counting Crows cranked up high,  made everything homemade, followed Martha Stewart’s Thanksgiving recipes to a T, down to the homemade cranberry/apple reduction sauce. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Y'all, I even constructed the Mayflower as a centerpiece for the kid’s table, with indian headdresses for all the littles. I made the Mayflower with my own TWO HANDS.  I’m just sayin, I think I get extra points for that?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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When my family showed up at the door, I started sobbing.  Because sometimes I’m not so resilient and I’m not so strong. Sometimes I’m fragile and sad and so completely human. Sometimes even a handmade Mayflower can’t cover up what I’m hiding. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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One thing I know and love about Thanksgiving is that I want my people to be here. I need them to be here. Not so I can cook the best food and set the best tables but because I know how desperately we all need each other. I am so thankful for their love, their support, the gift of their presence in my life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Mama friends, love your people HARD this Thanksgiving. Love your people when they've lost their way and when their mashed potatoes are runny and even when they stand at the front door and sob. This is what it means to take care of each other. This is the way of hospitality.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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My family responsively reads a beautiful Thanksgiving Litany  every year written by Pastor Bill Cwirla. It's so beautiful and I'm linking to it in my stories. Print it off and be blessed.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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LOVE YOU. Happy Thanksgiving week!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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And tell me in the comments ONE side dish you can't live without.
Instagram post 2185135133997569155_27826134 We got back from Disney yesterday and had the hardest evening we've had with Tom Tom to date. It was ugly.  His outbursts and anger are always directed toward me and I was crushed under the pressure.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I cried as hard as I've ever cried for close to an hour.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Stevie said in 20 years he's never seen me so broken.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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We finally got him to sleep then we prayed, we talked for hours, we didn't sleep much.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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But I woke up this morning with a fire in my belly that won't quit. There is NOTHING that little boy can say to make me go away, to make me stop loving him, to make me do anything but STAY RIGHT HERE until the storm passes.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I decided to fast and pray today and tomorrow. To beg God for a miracle, for healing, for redemption, for His precious little child to KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that He is loved and CHOSEN.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I prayed against spiritual warfare that wants to do damage to this family and to our son. I prayed for heaven to come down, for Christ to be near.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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And I hold tight to the promise that the sufferings of this life do not compare to the glory that will be revealed. Sometimes life is not what we thought it would be, but I am HERE FOR ALL OF IT.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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This warrior mama will NOT STOP fighting.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I invite you to join me for the next 50 days (which will end right between my 50th birthday and the day one year anniversary of Tom Tom coming to live with us) at 6:50 every morning for a wake up call—a reminder for all of us that what is happening in our lives is happening FOR US and that no matter what, we will show up for our lives, fully present and awake and ready to take back what has been lost. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I linked the first live stream from this morning in my stories today and I also thought you might need a CUP OF JOE for this wake up call series, so scroll through my stories and you'll find a bar code that you can use at Starbucks to FUEL UP for what's to come. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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This is my little reminder to you that YOU WERE CREATED for this battle. Bless you. Love you. xoxo
Instagram post 2183860274505911539_27826134 For two non-theme park, homebody geriatrics, Stevie and I rocked this Disney weekend.  In full disclosure, I got a teeny bit nauseated on Dumbo😂😂😂 And My favorite line from our boy, “I didn’t come all the way down here to jis keep stoppin and eatin.”😂😂🤩🤩😳😳😍😍 (in my defense, it was my only chance to sit down🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️) There was magic, to be sure.  The lighting of the castle by Elsa, the character lunch at Chef Mickey’s, all the trinkets we said yes to, and the safari today at Animal Kingdom.  So amazing.  But All in all, I think our buddy would rather be home hauling something.  I think I’m with him. Although he did say, “Next year when we come...”😳😳😳😳 Make me laugh with your fave emojis that describe your relationship with Disney. Here are mine. 🆘🆘🆘🆘 K love ya, bye.
Instagram post 2181341008934204821_27826134 I woke Tom Tom up this morning and surprised him with the news that we are headed to Disney World!! I’m not sure the actual trip can live up to his excitement this morning.  But I will tell you this—for as hard as this year has been at times, having him in our home has been pure magic.  Also? Any last minute tips would be appreciated.  We’re not really Disney people but we can’t wait the spoil him rotten. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Instagram post 2177752273329668716_27826134 Two men in my life celebrated birthdays in the last month, and to say they were different celebrations is an understatement. Tom Tom welcomes ALL the birthday fun, and Stevie just wants a normal night and dinner.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I used to get SO hurt that Stevie didn't care about all the work I put into a big celebration. I made his birthday all about me and I let it be an excuse to prove the story in my head—that he doesn't appreciate what I do.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I've learned a lot about love and relationships and Stevie since then.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I used to blame him for my emotions. I used to tell a different story about us. Until I realized that I'm in charge of the narrative of my life.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Here are 7 ways to take responsibility for your relationships and write a better story...⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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1. Stop blaming others for how you feel (your thoughts cause YOUR feelings, so nobody can make you feel anything!)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
2. Stop making excuses for why your relationships are struggling⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
3. Give yourself what you need⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
4. Stop chasing happiness in temporal, external things (Your contentment and peace of mind is YOUR work)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
5. Stop complaining about the people in your life⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
6. Stop resenting and start forgiving⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
7. Take action TODAY to make every relationship in your life better⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Your relationships are up to you.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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You can write the story how you want.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Your life is your responsibility and you lose all your power when you blame other people for how it's turning out.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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YOU are the ONE. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Which of the 7 above do you want to work on? I have mine!!!
Instagram post 2177034122979865055_27826134 Reminded of an article @paigeknudsen contributed to my blog years ago and was thinking that some of you may need to hear her words about the space where your dreams and callings collide.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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"teaching preschoolers. mentoring young mamas. creating art. advocating for the poor. going back to college at 52. opening a coffee shop. writing a book. staring a new career. saving pennies for a mission trip. buying a car. restoring economic opportunities in a haitian community.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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i obviously have no idea what your dream is. but I believe that He, the giver of all good gifts, has placed a dream in your heart. He’s not only placed a dream in your heart, He’s gifted you to walk into that space where the dream & the calling join hands and welcome you in. maybe you’re already there. maybe your sweet spot, the place where you are effective and confident and thriving, is already a part of your everyday."⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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YES & AMEN.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Those nudges that you’d like to do this or that? Those desires are God given and what a privilege to be able to create more love and kindness and good and beauty in the world.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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If you want a very FUN kick in the booty toward the goals and dreams, check out my stories today and GET YOURSELF to my live event, YOUR BEST BEAUTIFUL YEAR!! It's amazing and you'll be so glad you decided to make your GROWTH a priority. Your whole family will benefit!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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WILL I SEE YOU THERE?!?!????!
Instagram post 2172738485744456617_27826134 I think the path to living the life you were created to live often looks like being willing to suffer the pain of exposure, being willing to admit, at least to yourself, that things are not as they should be—that you often fail to measure up to the standards that you or society or your church has set for you. That you’re still a mess of epic proportions.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Often what we do instead is hide away. Hide our emotions, hide our sins, hide our stories, hide somewhere safe behind the thin veil of religion, pride, status, wealth, a job, a degree, an addiction, or the self-obsesssion that often comes with trying to so hard to be what we think the world wants.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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But friends, you’ve been given work to do, a story to tell, and people to serve.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Don’t let fear keep you from doing in the world what only you can do. Yes, there will be fire and yes, there will be pain.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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BUT. If you open yourself, your mouth, your heart up—in the process, you will learn to live fully alive in your giftings, free from what has shamed you and caused you to hide yourself, free to finally love and serve the people God has put right in front of you with everything that is in you, free to walk through fire to find your way home.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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XOXOXO⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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p.s. If you're local, I'm speaking at Arrowhead Church in Morristown tonight and would love to see you there! Dinner is at 6 and I'll .be speaking at 7! Link to grab tickets in my stories!!!
Instagram post 2172009200287359414_27826134 Thursday morning chronicles with Tom Tom—

7am Wake him up in plenty of time to get dressed, eat something, play with the dogs, finish his math and ride his razor.

7:10 Get him dressed in his school uniform and smooch his face all over because he’s so darn cute.

7:20  Give him his 15 minute warning and remind him we have to finish his math before we leave.

7:30  Five minute warning while I finish my chores.

7:32 He yells upstairs that he has pee all over his shirt, so I go downstairs to investigate.  Sure enough. A dinner plate sized pee stain on the front of his uniform shirt.
“Tom, what in the world happened to your shirt?” He looks surprised, “All I did was go outside and pee and it got all over me.” I take a deep breath, bite my tongue and tell him that I’m going to get clean clothes for him and he better meet me in the car in 30 seconds because we have to leave.

7:35 I get in the car with his clean clothes and  his unfinished math homework and start slowly pulling out of the driveway.

7:37 I drive slowly past the front door at which point I spot him getting on his razor. “Tom, get in this car right now or I’m leaving.” He doesn’t. I drive slowly away.
He gives me a good headstart and then starts chasing me, half nekkid, down our long drive.  I stop to give him a chance to get in.  He makes a quick turn to the right and yells, “I’ll dis meet you at Becky’s by the horses.” 7:40 I spot him running as fast as he can through the fields and back yards and long grass. He opens the door and jumps in, with a grin a mile wide, just as proud of himself as he could be. He gets dressed and buckled in no time flat, breathing heavy and asking me why I’m so mean.

7:41 I tell him that if he doesn’t finish his math on the way to school, he may have to miss recess. (Blatant LIE but at this point, I AM TAPPED OUT.) He keeps handing me his math sheet, while shaking his head and asking me to read it to him and telling me he “ain’t too good at math. Or readin either." He finishes just in time to jump out of my car and barrel into school with all the pride of a boy who has conquered the world.

Just curious? How was your morning?
Instagram post 2170650350363663481_27826134 They don’t call me an Appalachian medicine woman for nothing.😂🤩🤠 Tom Tom told me last week that I needed to bring oils to his teacher. “She would like ‘em cause she’s jist like you.” Not sure what that meant but I have some miracle stories with my potions.  One of my fave things lately? Slathering my knee in Marjoram. (ACL tear in April doing a race). That combined with the magic of my gym @10experience  and the brilliance of @absolute_tx and Zac’s amazing therapy, I pr’d my deadlift yesterday at 253 pounds!!!! MAMA IS GETTING STRONGER.  I may have done the happy dance. 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 What amazing results have you had with these unicorn tears?!?
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