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The Lure of the “Inner Ring”

February 1, 2010 by Edie Wadsworth 33 Comments

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{one of my favorite inner rings, forged by time and trial and good fortune}

It can be intimidating to go to a meeting of five hundred smart, opinionated, quite successful women.  Let alone women bloggers: that’s another category altogether.    And when 500 women gather at Blissdom this week, there’ll inevitably be 100 little groups of 4 or 5 women huddling and laughing and talking about all manner of topics, as it should be.      We seek out those with whom we have much in common and hope to make true connections.   But lurking closely is temptation to what C.S. Lewis, in his book The Weight of Glory,  calls the ‘inner ring’.   And we often perceive that we are somehow just ‘outside’ it.   You know the ‘inner ring’ well from high school;  the group of girls that are inseparable and exist for the sole purpose of excluding everyone else from their circle.   The group is usually not a natural, organic group that forges easily because of the like interests shared by the parties.   It’s a group that has the appearance of  including the ‘important people’ or the ‘people in the know’.   And it’s sole existence is exclusion.  The allure for the inner ring only works if there’s an imaginary line of admittance which is guarded tightly by those already inside.     Lewis points out what many of us already know;

If all you want is to be in the know,  your pleasure will be short-lived.   The circle cannot have from  within the charm it had from outside.  By the very act of admitting you it has lost its magic.   Once the first novelty is worn off, the members of this circle will be no more interesting than your old friends.   Why should they be?  You were not looking for virtue or kindness or loyalty or humour or learning or wit or any of the things that can be really enjoyed.  You merely wanted to be “in”.  And that is a pleasure that cannot last.   As soon as your new associates have been staled to you by custom, you will be looking for another ring.

The quest for the Inner Ring will break your hearts unless you break it.  But if you break it, a suprising result will follow.  If in your spare time, you consort simply with the people you like, you will again find that you have come unawares to a real inside, that you are indeed snug and safe at the centre of something which,  seen from without,   might look exactly like an Inner Ring.   But the difference is that its secrecy is accidental, and its exclusiveness a by-product, and noone was led thither by the lure of the esoteric, for it is only four or five people who like one another meeting to do what they like to do.   This is friendship.

What we seek to establish and strengthen are friendships.   Inner rings are unavoidable, necessary, and often innocent wholesome groups.  It’s our desire to be admitted for the sake of being “in” and our pleasure at others’ exclusion that ushers in evil.

So, remember that the people sitting with you are likely the most interesting, kind, passionate people at the conference.   And when you find, perhaps unawares, that a cozy inner ring has formed, be thankful for the gift of true fellowship, which never has exclusion as its’ touchstone.

See you at Blissdom!

Thank you Ruthanne for introducing me to PW’s photoshop actions (used on the above photo).  I see an ‘inner photography ring’ in our future.  Anyone else wanna join?

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  1. AvatarJody says

    February 1, 2010 at 12:52 pm

    Beautifully put. It can be overwhelming to be at such a large conference and feel like a “little fish in a big pond”. While many are fretting over what to wear and if anyone will know them I just look forward to meeting new friends, catching up with old and enjoying my time surrounded by women who “get” me.

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  2. DedraDedra says

    February 1, 2010 at 12:57 pm

    “And when you find, perhaps unawares, that a cozy inner ring has formed, be thankful for the gift of true fellowship, which never has exclusion as its’ touchstone.”

    Could not have said it better… thanks for the reminder and the growing excitement to enjoy Blissdom!

    Hope to hug your neck!

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  3. AvatarDonna says

    February 1, 2010 at 1:06 pm

    Well said! Great photo too – I might have to join that “photography ring”! Happy Monday!

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  4. Avatarpatty says

    February 1, 2010 at 1:23 pm

    which action did you use? great photo, with all those blue eyes! 🙂
    have fun at blissdom… i’m so jealous!

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  5. AvatarEmily@remodelingthislife says

    February 1, 2010 at 1:35 pm

    Edie, I have come to learn (in all of my many years – HA!) that most women I know feel like they are on the outside. So even women I think are “in the ring” don’t think they are or feel like others are instead. I really can’t wait to meet everyone and even though there are some I “know” better and may gravitate toward, it doesn’t have to mean anything more than finding comfort.

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  6. AvatarMelissa Multitasking Mama says

    February 1, 2010 at 1:54 pm

    What an important statement to make before this conference…thanks for making us all feel more comfortable before we even get there.

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  7. AvatarMichelle says

    February 1, 2010 at 2:55 pm

    Edie,
    This post was fabulous. Thanks for bringing a little CS Lewis to my morning and perspective to all of the blogging conferences that are upcoming. I absolutely loved the lesson here. Have a great time at Blissdom, I hope to be joining everyone next year.
    Michelle

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  8. AvatarAmanda @ Serenity Now says

    February 1, 2010 at 3:05 pm

    Great photo, Edie. 🙂 I loved the excerpt you shared today. Going to Blissdom would be a dream come true for me, but I also know that once I got there, I’d probably revert to my wallflower tendencies. I hope you have a wonderful, wonderful time!! 🙂

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  9. AvatarLaura @ Sahm I Am says

    February 1, 2010 at 3:23 pm

    Don’tcha just love CS Lewis? His way of thinking is amazing.

    For me, breaking the quest for the ring has been a gift of adulthood. Now that we’re no longer in that high school ring system, we are free. I have found myself surrounded by the most wonderful people! I hope that I can pass this knowledge on to my daughter so that the quest doesn’t have to break her heart.

    Have fun at Blissdom. Maybe someday I will join you all.

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  10. AvatarRuth says

    February 1, 2010 at 3:49 pm

    I can only imagine how intimidating a conference like Blissdom can be. It is a dream to someday attend and if and when I do I will remember the inner ring.

    I hope you have a wonderful time.

    Ruth

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  11. Avataroh amanda says

    February 1, 2010 at 5:37 pm

    Beautiful post & a lesson to remember wherever we are! I’ll be traveling to Blissdom with my inner ring and I’m so excited! 🙂

    a

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  12. AvatarJulie Harward says

    February 1, 2010 at 6:10 pm

    Have fun! Great photo too…hope you are happy either way, in or out of the ring…that is peace! 😀

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  13. AvatarSarah says

    February 1, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    Hey Edie…have a ball! xxx

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  14. AvatarTara says

    February 1, 2010 at 9:49 pm

    I love when you write a post like this…we’re all familiar with the “inner rings!” It’s wonderful to have an inner circle of kindred hearts to share life with, but it should never happen at the expense of someone else.

    Love,Love,love the reminder to check out those that God puts on our path all the while enjoying the comforts of dear and deep friendships that already exist for us.

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  15. Avatarmelissa stover says

    February 2, 2010 at 12:40 am

    that’s fabulous! can’t wait and sit and talk with you at blissdom. oh and i’m so in on that photography ring.

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  16. AvatarAimee says

    February 2, 2010 at 2:47 am

    I love this post and I’m going to have my 11 yr. old son read it. I don’t want him to read it because he wants to be on the inside, but because I want him to see how wise he is already becoming. See, he loves baseball and has been playing on a select team for 2 1/2 years, but this year (a week ago to be exact) he told me he didn’t want to play anymore b/c he didn’t want to be around the kids that are on his team– the inner circle in his life. He has seen their group for what it is and he’s happy not to be a part of it so much so that he has removed himself from them.
    Thanks for the post and have a ball!!!

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  17. AvatarThe Junkin Chick says

    February 2, 2010 at 3:30 am

    LOVE the photo and the words of wisdom. I wish I were going to Blissdom!!

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  18. AvatarCate says

    February 2, 2010 at 8:39 pm

    Love the post – always good to hear when you have found yourself outside an “inner ring” a few times in your past, and were left wondering “what is wrong with me?”

    Ah – PW actions. I started there, and now have sourced interesting actions from all over the place – welcome to the entrance of the rabbit hole 😉

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  19. AvatarSandy says

    February 3, 2010 at 5:32 am

    Edie, you are the best. Can’t wait to hang out. XO

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  20. Avatardarcy @m3b says

    February 3, 2010 at 7:38 am

    I’d love to keep up with photography with you. I have some other sites with free actions I can show you, too.

    can’t wait to see you again – safe travels!

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  21. AvatarEmily @ The Pilot's Wife says

    February 3, 2010 at 4:48 pm

    Beautifully said (with the help of C.S. Lewis, of course!). I think that’s something we can all relate to.

    By the way, your new site looks amazing! Darcy is so great, huh? 🙂

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  22. AvatarAdventures In Babywearing says

    February 3, 2010 at 6:00 pm

    Beautiful, and such a thought.

    Steph

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  23. AvatarKristen@Moms Sharpening Moms says

    February 3, 2010 at 6:53 pm

    I love, love, love this! I think heaven itself will be like a giant, holy Inner Ring!

    Sweet picture, too!

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  24. AvatarMarsha says

    February 4, 2010 at 4:47 am

    beautifully spoken, edie!

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  25. AvatarDkd1434 says

    January 20, 2011 at 1:58 am

    Inner ring..clique…….some people want to hang out with only the big bloggers and while they aren’t to your face mean, they exclud you, ignore you and make you feel like crap because well………you’re not a big blogger so you’re beneath them.

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  26. AvatarMiss Mustard Seed says

    January 20, 2011 at 4:05 am

    Great post. I’m going to be there and I look forward to meeting you! 🙂

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  27. AvatarHillaryatTheOtherMama says

    January 20, 2011 at 5:42 am

    Can’t wait to see you again, sista!!

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  28. AvatarKristen says

    January 20, 2011 at 7:48 pm

    Was just talking about something very similar with some people who are going to be first time conference goers. Great, great read!

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  29. AvatarKatie Goodman says

    January 20, 2011 at 11:24 pm

    Loved this post! I saw it as a RT on twitter. Thanks so much for sharing it. Enjoy Blissdom – wish I was attending!

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  30. AvatarChez Us says

    January 22, 2011 at 9:16 pm

    Bravo; well said! Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us all and have a great time at Blissdom.

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Mama friends, love your people HARD this Thanksgiving. Love your people when they've lost their way and when their mashed potatoes are runny and even when they stand at the front door and sob. This is what it means to take care of each other. This is the way of hospitality.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I invite you to join me for the next 50 days (which will end right between my 50th birthday and the day one year anniversary of Tom Tom coming to live with us) at 6:50 every morning for a wake up call—a reminder for all of us that what is happening in our lives is happening FOR US and that no matter what, we will show up for our lives, fully present and awake and ready to take back what has been lost. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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This is my little reminder to you that YOU WERE CREATED for this battle. Bless you. Love you. xoxo
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Which of the 7 above do you want to work on? I have mine!!!
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i obviously have no idea what your dream is. but I believe that He, the giver of all good gifts, has placed a dream in your heart. He’s not only placed a dream in your heart, He’s gifted you to walk into that space where the dream & the calling join hands and welcome you in. maybe you’re already there. maybe your sweet spot, the place where you are effective and confident and thriving, is already a part of your everyday."⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Those nudges that you’d like to do this or that? Those desires are God given and what a privilege to be able to create more love and kindness and good and beauty in the world.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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WILL I SEE YOU THERE?!?!????!
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Often what we do instead is hide away. Hide our emotions, hide our sins, hide our stories, hide somewhere safe behind the thin veil of religion, pride, status, wealth, a job, a degree, an addiction, or the self-obsesssion that often comes with trying to so hard to be what we think the world wants.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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But friends, you’ve been given work to do, a story to tell, and people to serve.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Don’t let fear keep you from doing in the world what only you can do. Yes, there will be fire and yes, there will be pain.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The alternative is to stay closed and stuck.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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BUT. If you open yourself, your mouth, your heart up—in the process, you will learn to live fully alive in your giftings, free from what has shamed you and caused you to hide yourself, free to finally love and serve the people God has put right in front of you with everything that is in you, free to walk through fire to find your way home.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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XOXOXO⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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p.s. If you're local, I'm speaking at Arrowhead Church in Morristown tonight and would love to see you there! Dinner is at 6 and I'll .be speaking at 7! Link to grab tickets in my stories!!!
Instagram post 2172009200287359414_27826134 Thursday morning chronicles with Tom Tom—

7am Wake him up in plenty of time to get dressed, eat something, play with the dogs, finish his math and ride his razor.

7:10 Get him dressed in his school uniform and smooch his face all over because he’s so darn cute.

7:20  Give him his 15 minute warning and remind him we have to finish his math before we leave.

7:30  Five minute warning while I finish my chores.

7:32 He yells upstairs that he has pee all over his shirt, so I go downstairs to investigate.  Sure enough. A dinner plate sized pee stain on the front of his uniform shirt.
“Tom, what in the world happened to your shirt?” He looks surprised, “All I did was go outside and pee and it got all over me.” I take a deep breath, bite my tongue and tell him that I’m going to get clean clothes for him and he better meet me in the car in 30 seconds because we have to leave.

7:35 I get in the car with his clean clothes and  his unfinished math homework and start slowly pulling out of the driveway.

7:37 I drive slowly past the front door at which point I spot him getting on his razor. “Tom, get in this car right now or I’m leaving.” He doesn’t. I drive slowly away.
He gives me a good headstart and then starts chasing me, half nekkid, down our long drive.  I stop to give him a chance to get in.  He makes a quick turn to the right and yells, “I’ll dis meet you at Becky’s by the horses.” 7:40 I spot him running as fast as he can through the fields and back yards and long grass. He opens the door and jumps in, with a grin a mile wide, just as proud of himself as he could be. He gets dressed and buckled in no time flat, breathing heavy and asking me why I’m so mean.

7:41 I tell him that if he doesn’t finish his math on the way to school, he may have to miss recess. (Blatant LIE but at this point, I AM TAPPED OUT.) He keeps handing me his math sheet, while shaking his head and asking me to read it to him and telling me he “ain’t too good at math. Or readin either." He finishes just in time to jump out of my car and barrel into school with all the pride of a boy who has conquered the world.

Just curious? How was your morning?
Instagram post 2170650350363663481_27826134 They don’t call me an Appalachian medicine woman for nothing.😂🤩🤠 Tom Tom told me last week that I needed to bring oils to his teacher. “She would like ‘em cause she’s jist like you.” Not sure what that meant but I have some miracle stories with my potions.  One of my fave things lately? Slathering my knee in Marjoram. (ACL tear in April doing a race). That combined with the magic of my gym @10experience  and the brilliance of @absolute_tx and Zac’s amazing therapy, I pr’d my deadlift yesterday at 253 pounds!!!! MAMA IS GETTING STRONGER.  I may have done the happy dance. 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 What amazing results have you had with these unicorn tears?!?
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