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 This ebook will challenge your status quo.

This series on hospitality has been growing inside my heart for a lifetime.

Because really, isn’t it the ache of every human heart—to be known, to be loved?

You will be challenged to rethink how you live your life and how your view your ‘neighbor’.

Go on a 31 day journey with me as we dig deep and discover  the heart of hospitality and learn what it really means to be open and giving to others.

If you’re my mother or my most loyal readers and are ready to make the purchase, you can do it, for $5, the price of a latte!

(This ebook is largely taken from material I wrote on my blog  as a 31 Day series last October.

I  have added content  and edited the original posts to be better suited for an ebook.)

You will get access to both the pdf file of the book and the epub file (which can be downloaded to any mobile mac device.


If you aren’t sure it this ebook is for you, read on!

This work is born out of heartache.  When we lost our house to fire 2 years ago, I wasn’t sure I’d ever recover.

I sat in our driveway and watched our dreams burn to the ground.

I grieved so many things and felt loss like I’d never known.

I cried out for answers.  Why us?  Why this?

But our suffering isn’t lost on our Father.  It’s only His grace in disguise.

And He will twist every heartache into joy.

While we worked hard to rebuild the bricks and mortar, He went to work on our stone hearts.

The truth is, we don’t have to lose everything to feel our poverty.  We sense it in the depths of our souls.

It’s all just rubble.  And our card houses teeter on disaster.  We’re all a mess, house fire or not.

We know we need  someone——-someone who knows us and loves us in spite of ourselves.

That is the hospitality of scripture.

That is the warm welcome we receive from Christ himself.

Hospitality isn’t about inviting people into our perfect homes, it’s about inviting them into our imperfect hearts.

It’s about learning to live from that vulnerable place where we open ourselves to love.

And ultimately, it’s about Him—-The perfect Host who provides for everything we sinners need, right down to the best wine for the wedding feast.

This ebook is for anyone who has felt his own poverty and known the redemption of being loved anyway.

This is hospitality, on purpose.

On the practical side, we’ll explore everything from how to set up a baking center in your kitchen to how to set up your guest spaces,

and even some tips on  what to wear to be a well-appointed  hostess.

31 Days to a Heart of Hospitality ebook

This book includes a few of my favorite recipes and is  loaded with photos.  It’s  over 100 pages and 18,000 words long.

31 Days to a Heart of Hospitality 

 is my manifesto, of sorts.  It will lead you into more meaningful relationships with all the people in your life, not just your occasional guests!

This ebook is the equivalent of a long chat with me on my screened porch, where I tell you a

few secrets that I’ve learned about welcoming people into my life,

after many years and much trial and error.

This ebook started out as a 31 Day series on my blog but I’ve added about 25% more content, including a chapter on Children and Hospitality, which is my favorite of the whole series.

To sample the book, you can read Day 1 here.

If you decide to purchase the book and are blessed by it,   I would be so honored and humbled if you’d share the book with your friends and family

via your blogs, Facebook, Twitter, and even by good ole’ fashioned word of mouth.

After many, many hours of writing, editing, cooking, writing some more and editing some more,

I’m so happy to be able to offer this to you in a printable, easily accessible version.

I hope you enjoy it!

What others are saying—

from Marie at The (Not Always) Lazy W:

“ Edie’s heartfelt book on hospitality is a must read. In thirty one warmly written installments, she illuminates the depth and breadth of this all-important aspect of humanity, this indispensable but often ignored chapter in homemaking.   She writes with great intelligence and free flowing emotion about the purpose of hospitality. About the importance of opening our homes- our very selves- to others. They need it, and so do we. And she points to the relevance of some timeless domestic habits to our modern culture of convenience.

 Her ideas sparkle with spiritual fervor. And as if that’s not enough, each sub topic is drenched and enlivened with colorful, textural, enticing photos of the people and adornments of her private world, treats in which her blog followers take much delight! If you have so far regarded hospitality as an obligatory sweeping of the floor and putting out of the “good” soaps… Or, worse, if you have seen it as a chance to exalt yourself and demean others… then please treat yourself and your loved ones to this delicious little slice of grace. Southern grace, for sure, but also that lasting Grace we all crave.

Edie will reenergize your soul for loving others, and it will reinspire you to open your home.”

And Laura Kooistra from Liberty Farm Chronicles

Always truthful, sometimes tough, and endlessly tender, Edie picks up her pen once again to touch the hearts of her readers.  Her capacity to present fundamental big picture ideas at the same time as offering accessible practical help make her 31 Days to Hospitality series a life changing read.  Most importantly perhaps, Edie doesn’t offer us exhaustive “to do” lists, (although I have definitely adopted some of her suggestions), she stroke after stroke inspires and convicts me to admit my need for you, pray that you need me too, live in humility with myself first, and proceed to cultivate hospitality in my spirit before I make a single menu plan. Edie’s characteristic effervescence infuses this series with a sense that she’s got you right where she wants you – on her porch, sharing a sunset, and a joined hope for redeeming this precious life. Together.

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To purchase the ebook, click the ‘Buy Now’ button and you will be able to download your purchase  for $5 within minutes.

You will get access to both the pdf file and the digital file (which can be downloaded and synced to the iPhone, iPad, or iPod.
The version for Kindle is in the process of being approved but is not ready yet.
I’m also working with CreateSpace to make a paperback that can be ordered on demand.
Click the ‘buy now’ button is you’d like to purchase the pdf and digital files.


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About the author:

After leaving her career as a family physician in 2006, Edie has found her sweet spot, her life’s work, at home. Like her favorite Greek hero, Odysseus, her homecoming has been full of joys and trials and plenty of hard work—-as she has seeks to live a full, authentic and creative life with her family. She cooks and cleans and homeschools and gardens and crafts and reads and dabbles in bird-watching and star gazing. She’s obsessed with cowboy boots, banjos, monograms and cornbread, and is Southern to the core. Her faith journey has had similar twists and turns as she has struggled through legalism and mysticism to finally find her true home in the orthodox christian faith, where the grace of God in Christ, has become her life’s manifesto. She documents her faith journey, her insatiable appetite for classic literature, her love for C.S. Lewis, her obsession with art and design, and her Southern chic decorating style on her blog, lifeingrace.  Her home was recently featured in January’s issue of Better Homes and Gardens, after her family rebuilt their home and life following a devastating house fire. She writes with wit, passion, and honesty, and hopes to inspire women to love and care for their homes and families, in the midst of the often despairing hardships that life canbrings.


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1 Kalani Allred January 22, 2013 at 12:50 pm

Hello – I purchased your ebook via paypal last night, but do not see how to download it. Please let me know. Thank you! -Kalani

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2 Michelle January 22, 2013 at 1:57 pm

I purchased your eBook, but didn’t get the icon to download it. Help, please! (Guess this is why this computer stuff frustrates me.) Thanks.

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3 Cheryl January 22, 2013 at 4:00 pm

Same problem as Kalani and Michelle. No icon to download your ebook. Am I missing something? Thank you.

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4 Angie January 22, 2013 at 5:08 pm

I am having the same trouble….. I purchased it but I am not sure where to go to download it. Thanks!

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5 Julie January 22, 2013 at 5:20 pm

I am having the same problem- thanks!

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6 Laura January 22, 2013 at 5:47 pm

Hi Edie-
Ditto for me. I am having the same problem.
I can’t wait to read it.

Thanks,
Laura

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7 Sandy @ RE January 22, 2013 at 7:40 pm

Congrats, Edie. You are the essence of hospitality, a beautiful woman who opens her home to so many – with love! Thank you, friend, for writing this book! I hope many are blessed.

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8 Lisa January 22, 2013 at 9:03 pm

Hello, I have the same problem as the above. Maybe it takes a little time, if not please let me know how to access the book. Thank you for sharing your inspiration.

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9 Donna January 22, 2013 at 10:28 pm

i thought it was just me, but i see others can’t figure it out either. i am not seeing anything to download. please help! thanks!! can’t wait to read it!

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10 Tracy January 23, 2013 at 7:53 am

Me too!!

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11 Dorothy January 23, 2013 at 9:31 am

How much does it cost?

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12 Carolyn January 23, 2013 at 10:59 am

I am also not finding where to download your ebook. Help! :-)

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13 Von Ann Wells January 23, 2013 at 11:52 am

I have the same problem, can’t find the book after I purchased it. Need “HELP”!

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14 carole January 23, 2013 at 12:08 pm

Yep, same problem for me – I wasn’t able to find any place to download. So looking forward to reading this!

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15 Jeni January 23, 2013 at 12:36 pm

I purchased yesterday. When you finish with Paypal it gives you the option to go back to Lifeingraceblog. Click this and it will give you the links. My problem is I pulled up the book as PDF on my computer, started reading and then realized I had to get my girls to gymnastics. Later, my son clicked out of it and now I have no idea how to access it again. Help!

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16 Jane Lynch January 23, 2013 at 3:15 pm

PLEASE let us know how to access the book! I paid yesterday with PayPal.

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17 Tricia K. January 23, 2013 at 3:16 pm

Help Edie! I purchased your book but no links to download book! Does it come via an email? thank you!

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18 Mary-Beth January 23, 2013 at 5:37 pm

I am having the same problem…bought the ebook but didn’t find any links or icon to download it. Please help! :)

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19 Christin January 23, 2013 at 7:05 pm

Me toooo! Glad I am not alone. I can’t wait to read

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20 Karin Mantor January 24, 2013 at 6:50 am

Same here. I purchased the book last night and couldn’t find it on my computer. I can’t wait to read it. Thanks! Karin

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21 Rhonda January 24, 2013 at 8:06 am

Same problem as others…….can’t find where to download.

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22 kelli January 24, 2013 at 5:28 pm

Me too? Purchased but no link to download. Thanks, Kelli

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23 Sarah L. January 25, 2013 at 10:51 am

Oh I feel awful, but I’m having the same issue as the others. I may have missed it, but haven’t seen or found what I need to download the ebook, after I paid. Sorry to bother you.

Thanks, I can’t wait to dig in!

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24 Ginny January 25, 2013 at 3:52 pm

I can read this book on my Kindle using the USB (PC to Kindle) transfer method outlined on the Amazon website. If you have a Kindle, this is a great way to read the book 31 Days to a Heart of Hospitality! Thank you so much!

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25 nancy smith January 26, 2013 at 9:54 pm

I purchased your e-book with paypal but can’t get it to open…I’m thinking it is my computer but not sure how to get back to the page to download it . Sorry….

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26 Lynne January 26, 2013 at 10:42 pm

At the risk of sounding redundant…I can’t find a link where to download your wonderful book. Thank you!

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27 Charlotte M. January 27, 2013 at 2:03 am

I purchased the ebook and received instructions to open in Evernote. When I tried, it stated it was too large for the free version and that I needed to purchase the upgrade. I did this for a one month subscription in order to read it. My problem now is that I can’t find where the book is and can only find where to purchase it again. Can you help, please? Thanks so much!

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28 Shirley M. January 27, 2013 at 3:40 pm

I also purchased your ebook and have not received directions for downloading. Thanks for your help in advance.

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29 Meg January 28, 2013 at 11:49 am

I am also not able to download! I look forward to reading your book.

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30 Julia January 30, 2013 at 2:57 pm

Hi Edie,
I am having problems getting the book downloaded??? The picture of the cover of the book is there but no book? Any suggestions? Thanks so much- Julia in Lafayette, LA.

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31 Sarah January 30, 2013 at 8:52 pm

Hi Edie,
I too am having trouble getting the book downloaded! I look forward to reading it :)
Thanks, Sarah

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32 Stephanie Hildebrandt January 30, 2013 at 8:55 pm

bought your ebook, it says it was downloaded, but where do i find it? what do i do next? thank you. i’m on a tablet.

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33 Ann February 1, 2013 at 12:21 pm

How do we download the book?

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34 Holly February 1, 2013 at 2:55 pm

I can’t access the e-book. Not sure where to find it!! Thanks.

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35 Holly February 1, 2013 at 2:56 pm

I bought the e-book. Not sure where to find it!! Thanks.

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36 Holly February 1, 2013 at 2:56 pm

I bought the e-book. Not sure where to find it!! Thanks.

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37 Gina February 1, 2013 at 5:05 pm

Me too. I read all the way through the comments hoping for an answer. :(

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38 Heather February 2, 2013 at 11:09 am

Me too. Still looking for the book.

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39 Heather February 2, 2013 at 4:53 pm

I purchased your ebook a few days ago and I cannot figure out how to open it and download it. Please advise. Thanks!

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40 jamie February 2, 2013 at 9:26 pm

Edie,
I just purchased your ebook with paypal. I didn’t see anywhere to download it. Please advise!
Can’t wait to read it!

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41 Gisele February 2, 2013 at 10:44 pm

I also can not get the download! Help!

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42 Paige February 3, 2013 at 12:44 pm

I purchased your ebook with paypal. I didn’t see anywhere to download it. Please let me know what I should do.
Thank you,
Paige
duree26@yahoo.com

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43 edie February 3, 2013 at 1:59 pm

I’ve been emailing everyone, separately, with the download links, so if you post here, I’ll send you an email back pronto. Thank you, dearest friends, for supporting this work of my heart. I love you and am so thankful!
Mucho love,
edie

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44 Shannon@MishmashMama February 3, 2013 at 5:04 pm

Hi Edie! I had the same issue. My paypal address is different, though, so let me know if you need it!

Thanks so much,
Shannon Thomas

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45 Abby February 3, 2013 at 8:35 pm

Hi, Edie! I bought the book yesterday and also need the download links. I’m so excited to read it!

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46 Erica February 4, 2013 at 3:47 am

Hi Edie!
I bought the book two days ago and I was not able to download it. Would you mind sending me the link? Very excited to read it!

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47 Kristy February 4, 2013 at 3:40 pm

Hello! Bought the book this morning & need the download link.
xoxo

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48 Denise February 4, 2013 at 6:09 pm

Excited about the book! Waiting on the Kindle version so please keep your website updated b/c I can’t wait! :)

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49 Connie February 4, 2013 at 11:22 pm

Hi Edie,

Same as Denise, would like the Kindle version so please hurry; I can’t wait!

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50 michelle February 5, 2013 at 11:36 am

Edie,
I also purchased but didn’t receive the link. Thanks for sending them :) Looking so forward to reading it and having my heart changed.

Michelle

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51 Kandace February 6, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Edie,
I purchased your book and am having the same troubles as everyone else. I’m so looking forward to reading it!
Your newest fan,
Kandace

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52 Jennifer Lowe February 6, 2013 at 2:29 pm

Hi, Edie,
I, too, need the link for your ebook. :)
Thanks so much!
Jennifer

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53 Stephanie February 6, 2013 at 10:51 pm

May I please have the link for the ebook? Same problem as the others. Can’t wait to get started! Thank you.

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54 Judy Blanchard February 7, 2013 at 4:18 am

I paid through PayPal . Please send link to download. Thanks..

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55 Justina February 7, 2013 at 9:24 am

I just purchased the e-book this morning and am I having the same issue. I do not see an icon to download. Thank you in advance and I can’t wait to read it!

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56 Jennifer Kumm February 7, 2013 at 11:43 am

Hi. I also missed the download button. Thank you in advance. Can’t wait to read it!!! Have a great day!!

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57 Kim Hoffpauir February 7, 2013 at 1:16 pm

Missed the download button. Thanks so much.

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58 Lisa Bickerstaff February 7, 2013 at 5:16 pm

Hi Edie,
Same problem with downloading the pdf. Can’t wait to read it!!!

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59 Ncr Flowers February 8, 2013 at 3:36 am

great article want to purchase that book

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60 KatWibb February 10, 2013 at 12:15 am

Purchased the book but no download link either.

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61 Arlena February 10, 2013 at 7:16 pm

Hi Edie,
Just purchased your book, will wait for the email to download it.
Thank you!

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62 Don February 10, 2013 at 11:51 pm

is anyone receiving the book?

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63 Sara B. February 11, 2013 at 8:41 pm

Hello,
I also just purchased your book today and have not received an email to download it.
Thank you.

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64 Becky B February 12, 2013 at 8:57 pm

Also wondering the same thing, how do I get the ebook? I ordered today. Will I get an email?
thank you!! Can’t wait to read it!

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65 Holly February 13, 2013 at 3:39 pm

Ordered today, can’t find it . Thanks!

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66 Nancy Wallace February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Hi Edie, I ordered your ebook this past Monday and did not get a link to download it. I have paid and have my receipt. I love your blog!

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67 Melissa February 15, 2013 at 1:38 pm

Hello! I just ordered your ebook and now am looking to download. I see I am not the only one. :) looking forward to it!

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68 Angel Kinney February 15, 2013 at 1:49 pm

Hi Edie,
I ordered your ebook as well. I paid with pay pal and have my receipt.How do I download it?

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69 ROBBIE February 15, 2013 at 2:59 pm

Purchased the book, just waiting now on instructions.

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70 Sandra at Thistle Cove Farm February 19, 2013 at 3:48 pm

On a wide variety of fronts, you are soooo right! My parents lost their place to a fire a few years before Dave, my husband, suddenly died in 11/11. Since then, hospitality just hasn’t been important to me. Frankly, it’s all I can do to keep the farm going along with the rest of life. Then, I “found” your e-book and am thinking…maybe it’s time… I’m going to follow or sign up for your updates; life is frosty and Godly encouragement a balm in Gilead.
Thank you.

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71 nikki February 19, 2013 at 10:45 pm

me too, I can’t wait to read your book :) I look forward to getting the link!

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72 Maggie February 22, 2013 at 11:10 am

Just purchased the book – please send link to access!
Thank you – looking forward to reading it!

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73 Karen February 25, 2013 at 8:40 pm

I purchased the book but it does not appear. Would you please send the link.

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74 Selena February 25, 2013 at 10:34 pm

Please send me the link to your book. I purchased it last week. Thanks!

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75 Joy February 28, 2013 at 8:54 am

I also purchased the book this week and can’t find it to read. Thank you! So looking forward to reading it!

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76 Penny February 28, 2013 at 5:48 pm

Looking forward to getting the download link! Found your site today, what a blessing :)

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77 Lisa March 1, 2013 at 6:11 am

I bought the book, can’t wait to read it … but need the link to download.
Please help.
Thank you!

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78 Marilyn March 1, 2013 at 9:58 am

I received my confirmation from Paypal but cannot do not see the icon to download the ebook. How do I access the ebook?

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79 lynn March 1, 2013 at 6:33 pm

I downloaded the book on a Mac, but there is no text. please help!

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80 Nicole March 5, 2013 at 11:20 am

Just purchased your ebook via paypal. Could you send me the link please? Thank you!

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81 Emily March 6, 2013 at 4:04 pm

I purchased and would love the link to download and dive in! Thanks!

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82 emily March 16, 2013 at 8:45 am

Still no book! Sorry to bother

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83 heather March 7, 2013 at 1:26 am

Hi Edie,
I also purchased your ebook via paypal on Saturday and never received the link! Cant wait to receive it and read it! Thanks, heather

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84 Sandy March 7, 2013 at 4:48 pm

I bought the book via paypal I have not received a download link to this book. Help here would be greatly appreciated

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85 justine March 8, 2013 at 10:28 am

I paid too and have not received a link for the book. Help?

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86 Judy Settle March 11, 2013 at 11:50 am

I purchased the e-book and need the link…..Thanks..

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87 Angie March 14, 2013 at 11:08 am

I purchased the e-book–need the links. Can’t wait to read over spring break. Thanks!

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88 susan March 18, 2013 at 3:29 pm

looking forward to reading, have paid, what next?

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89 joan thompson March 20, 2013 at 12:12 am

I ordered your book when you first released it. I could not find that it had downloaded, so I just wrote it off, however in reading the above comments, I see I was not the only one having problems. I have a Mac and decided it must not be compatable with your software. I thought I read someplace that you will be publishing this book in hardcover–did I dream that? Anyway, would be happy for another chance to download the ebook.

Thanks, so much.

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90 Martha March 23, 2013 at 10:28 am

Ummm. Glad I read the comments. I was going to download but it sounds like their is a problem with the downloading. If someone could comments that it was fixed or they finally got it downloaded, I would appreciate it.
Thanks

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91 Karen March 23, 2013 at 11:22 am

Still not fixed and no reply from author. I am contacting my payment provider to report. So disappointed.

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92 jillian March 28, 2013 at 9:23 am

Hello Edie,
I purchased your ebook almost 2-weeks ago and would love to have you send it over when you can. I know you have been a bit busy with being sick and traveling!
Thank you so much,

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93 Tracy March 28, 2013 at 7:09 pm

Hi – It does work – It does take a while but I downloaded it as a pdf. Looks good, Edie. Thanks.

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94 edie March 30, 2013 at 8:01 am

oh yay!! Thanks so much!
xoxo

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95 Maritza Colon March 30, 2013 at 12:30 pm

i purchased the e book and i dont have a link to open it. please let me know how to download it. thank you

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96 Anna April 4, 2013 at 6:34 pm

I can’t wait to read your book! But I can’t figure out how to gain access to it?? Please help!
Thanks so much!
Anna

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97 Danae April 4, 2013 at 8:43 pm

I purchased your ebook a week ago but am still unsure how to download. Any assistance would be much wonderful! Thanks so much!

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98 Loretta April 24, 2013 at 8:24 pm

I purchased the book on my ipad today and it is not loading. Think maybe I should have purchased on my computer first. I am not very good at loading items on my ipad. Can you help?
Thanks,
Loretta

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99 Sarah April 24, 2013 at 10:08 pm

I too cannot find the book on my iPad. I downloaded and was able to view it earlier but cannot figure out how to access. I am not too familiar with evokes. Any help appreciated!

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100 Sarah April 24, 2013 at 10:09 pm

I too cannot find the book on my iPad. I downloaded and was able to view it earlier but cannot figure out how to access. I am not too familiar with ebooks Any help appreciated! My correct email is listed here. My iPad autocorrected the last entry!

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101 Kristen Holloway April 28, 2013 at 7:33 pm

I also purchased the e-book on hospitality. Please send me the link. Thank you!
K

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102 Eileen Tarr May 3, 2013 at 10:42 pm

Edie,
I purchased your ebook several months ago and still cannot figure out how to download. Can you please help? Thanks!

Eileen

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103 Shelley Carson May 7, 2013 at 1:41 pm

Purchased the ebook with PayPal, but can’t find a link to download. Looks like maybe you are emailing a link? Thanks for the help.

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104 Teresa May 9, 2013 at 4:59 am

Hi Edie. Also need the link to download my purchased book. Thank you.

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105 Becky C May 10, 2013 at 6:27 pm

Hi Edie! I just bought your book, but have no download link either. I see that others have had the same issues. I would appreciate if you would send my email with file to download. Thanks bunches!

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